When a family member, friend or perhaps a co-worker dies you will invariably wish to pay your respect and offer your sympathy to the remaining family for their loss. Funerals are not something that people look forward to attending and often they come totally unexpected, but when they do happen, it is a situation that calls for reverence.
What are the right clothes to wear?
The traditional color has always been black, in many cases people still favor black but it is no longer somewhat mandatory. When you speak to the directors of funeral homes in San Diego CA they will tell you that wearing colors other than black does not mean that you are showing disrespect for the deceased or the family. Of course, common sense says that the colors cannot be overly gaudy, they should be somewhat muted and subdued and most certainly, they must be modest, a funeral is no place to bare too much skin.
Woman are safe with a simple dress, pantsuit or skirt and blouse, men normally wear a suit or trousers and a jacket. There are certain traditions at a funeral that the visitor may not be aware of, one is a head covering for women, taking a simple black head covering along is a good idea.
An expression of sympathy:
This can be difficult, especially if you are ill prepared. It is always a good idea to think of what you want to say before you reach the funeral home, this is not the time when you want to make an inappropriate remark. A simple statement is often best, something as simple as “we will all miss him” is appropriate.
The wake:
Most funeral homes in San Diego CA cater to the wishes of the family and have a wake or a time for visitation. During this time, friends and family members can simply mingle with one another, perhaps talking of some wonderful experience you shared with the deceased. Flowers that have been sent to the funeral home are on display as is the casket or urn. At the wake, keep your voice subdued and keep your emotions in check, although a few tears are understandable.
Funeral etiquette is a lot of common sense, be conscious of the family members and those who were the closest to the deceased, show them respect and be aware of their feelings.
