Clothing is a staple item. Everyone must wear clothes, but it’s not just about covering up anymore. Some teens want to dress like others and wear skimpy clothes or items that are too “old” for them, but many want to experiment with their clothes and find the right style for them. This is a delicate age for many girls, so it is important to let your tween express herself through clothing, as long as it is appropriate.
Dress Up
Let your daughter know it is okay to play with different fashions. Many girls are interested in grunge, edgy and dark clothing. These looks may work for some or your daughter may want to try a more chic & fresh look. Our looks can actually help you tremendously. Let her experiment with her style and whatever helps her express her inner beauty and/or inner rockstar. In the end, it’s all about her confidence and learn to express herself in appropriate ways.
Dress Down
No one wants to look pretty and polished all the time. Even Hollywood stars need and want to throw on a pair of leggings and a baggy, comfortable shirt every once in a while. Of course, these outfits are generally better to be worn at home or running errands, but if she wants to wear these outfits out, then let her, as long as they are appropriate and don’t have bad language or slogans on them.
Shop Around
Going online and creating wish lists can be a great way to “window shop” for the best items. Both of you, together, should create these lists. You will get to learn about your daughter’s likes and dislikes and she will realize you are there and are trying to help her.
Experiment with Her
Tweens want to experiment, but they also want to be socially accepted. Help build her confidence level by communicating and exploring and she will be well on her way to learning important lessons. Finding herself through style, clothing, accessories or something else is just a few of the many ways she can gain experience about who she is. Let her be herself, but don’t let her try to grow up too quickly.
Experimentation is important and normal for young women, so experimenting with tween girls clothing can be fun and educational. Visit Butterflies & Zebras for some cool and age appropriate outfits.
